Divorcing a narcissist.

Divorcing a narcissistic spouse can be one the hardest things to do, the process seems to go on forever, you often feel like the boundaries are changing, and as you agree to something the narcissist changes his or her mind and wants more as if you have ripped them off by taking too much.  It really is a game of cat and mouse, but unfortunately one that has to be played.  Many many victims walk away taking nothing and claiming nothing just to be free of the abuse and control.  But if you want more then the process will wear you down, so you will need to be prepared for it.

A first hand experience of divorcing a narcissist

In my case my ex was a clever man, as most narcissists are and didn’t have a lawyer, most of the time, although I think he would have received his fair share of free initial consultations, as he knew what he was doing.  He would constantly contact my lawyer, send her letters, phone calls and play games that cost me money.  I had to change lawyers after I had spent 10k with the first one and had absolutely no outcome at all.  He told me he would send me broke if I continued with her as he would not comply, so I knew I had to change legal firms and it had to be a man.  The 2nd lawyer was my savior, he had thick skin and could deal with all the crap, also a fixed price was essential so I knew what the costs would be.

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